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I like maths… 1+1=2

I like physics- The law of polarity to be precise; if there is a left there is a right, if there is an up there is a down.

I love how something just IS until we compare it. Then it can either be big, small, fat, thin… .well you get the picture!

This bumpy, dusty and at times ruthless journey into entrepreneurship is so much more than we initially see. It starts with you been given a dream by god, or spirit or whoever, whatever you believe. But you have been given these dreams to accomplish them.

I like to dream.

I remember as a child I wanted to be a model. I was a fat kid with freckles and thick curly hair….But I would visualise flying with Air New Zealand to dream destinations and be dressed and preened. That dream was squashed by the magazines, my peers, my self talk. It followed me into my adult hood… I took with me those thoughts, those feelings and the proof that ” Who the hell was I to dream!! ahahahha You want to be a model.. look at you… what a joke”. Harsh. But its the truth.

I stopped dreaming.

I forgot to follow my destiny, my souls intention. It was silenced with drugs, alcohol and wanting love from all the wrong places…Wow what a bloody saga this is turning into!

Instead I followed what others feed me I should, be and do.

Fast forward to my thirties when I had my first baby. An angel baby, she followed the baby books, she was my message from heaven. ” You are worth it, you have a talent, you must follow your dreams, your gut”. Ruby was my jewel, my treasure. I started to believe that I was the creator, I had created. So what else was I capable of? Hello dream weaver 🙂 I have had a great career and my journey has created what my previous boss would say ” A rich tapestry of life”.

10255858_840441636001328_5575139913341392702_nWe are here today, in my life as an entrepreneur, a woman business owner hell bent on taking us gorgeous creatures into a new century by creating legends, new rules and conquering new dreams. I am the nay sayer slayer!

You can have the fancy desk, professional branding photos, a new iMac daddy computer, the funkiest scheduling stationery from the chic shop in the city…But baby if you ain’t got belief you ain’t got nothing!

You can have kick butt programmes to offer, the sexist business cards and the modern website….But girlfriend if you ain’t got belief you ain’t got nothing!

How can you create and have a solid belief?

1. Stay in your truth. If you know at a soul level that what you are doing makes you happy and you have the talents to do it.. Then do it.

2. That sticking to the story that you can’t do it, it’s all too hard is just that… a story. Write a new one. It takes the same amount of energy to sit in the positive than the negative.

3. Create a goal that scares the pants off ya. Write it down everyday. Read it everyday. Visualise yourself doing it, achieving it and dreaming it.

What makes it worth it.. It’s your passion, it’s your belief. Don’t stop. Don’t stop.

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Natalie Tolhopf | Business Coach

About Natalie Tolhopf | Business Coach

After more than a decade in coaching (and a failed business venture), Natalie Tolhopf knows that success is all about mindset, focus and consistency. With a coaching philosophy that’s equal parts butt kick and handhold, Nat guides inspired businesswomen to take imperfect action to build your business in a way that’s right for you. She’ll teach you how to adopt a success mindset, and bust through procrastination and perfectionism to become the star of your own show.

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