[vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][image_with_animation image_url=”6381″ alignment=”center” animation=”None” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” max_width=”100%”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_custom_heading text=”The number ONE mindset block that’s sabotaging your success is DOUBT.
” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:center|color:%23655aa7″ google_fonts=”font_family:Oswald%3A300%2Cregular%2C700|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”30″][vc_column_text]Let’s bust through it babe!
Firstly, massive kudos to you for having the courage to dive into
this quiz and face your mindset blocks head on. By knowing what’s holding you back we can make powerful changes to your mindset.
Just by being here it tells me you’ve got a massive desire to step outside your comfort zone and move past these limiting beliefs.
I’ve got your back babe. It’s time to lift the lid on your doubt and send it packing, pronto![/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_custom_heading text=”But first…
Here’s what your quiz results tell me about you.” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:center|color:%23ee497e” google_fonts=”font_family:Oswald%3A300%2Cregular%2C700|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”30″][vc_column_text]Here’s the thing… I know without a doubt that you care. You care passionately about others and you feel things deeply.
But sometimes this means you worry too much about what others might think about you. Whether others will think you’re good enough, clever enough, know enough…
So you start thinking maybe you’re not cut out for business. That maybe you don’t have what it takes to be a success, because there are so many others out there who are better than you..
Does this resonate?
When we feel this way it’s often because we’ve experienced humiliation in the past. We’ve been shot down, felt shame, or judgement.
Enter doubt.
Doubt is, without a doubt, a bitch.
She’s Queen of ‘Not Enough’ and loves to whisper crap in your ear like:
- You don’t know enough.
- You’d never be brave enough to do that in your biz.
- You suck at sales.
- Your stuff looks like a hot mess.
- No one will take you seriously.
- You’ll never be as successful as her.
- What if they find out the truth about you?
She invades your thoughts and stops you taking action.
So you find yourself working extra hard and more hours to prove these thoughts wrong. To provide even more value to your clients and your audience in the hope it’ll mean they won’t doubt your skills and expertise.
And the procrastination. Oh, don’t get me started on this… Because doubt breeds a special kind of procrastination that stops you being a finisher: Shiny bloody object syndrome.
Have you heard of it?
It’s that need that you get to sign up for ebooks, courses, masterminds, software, training because:
- Your self-doubt is screaming that you need to know more.
- It’s new and exciting and… oooh you ‘should’ offer this too.
- It’s a short-lived distraction from your ‘not good enough’ thoughts.
The problem is, it takes you off focus and down all sorts of rabbit holes.
Then you lose clarity and start to feel overwhelmed at the business beast you’re creating.
It’s a tactic doubt has to stop you in your tracks. To slow you down and make you believe you can’t do what you’re aiming for.
Then Doubt likes to partner with comparisonitis – her #1 partner in crime.
They’re a double act that makes you scroll your feed checking out everyone who provides offers and services like yours.
You tell yourself it’s research. You want to quickly see what they’re up to…. But, oh, look… she’s flippin’ killing it.
Cue:
- “I never get that much engagement on my posts.”
- “Why can’t I rock it like that?”
- “I’ll never be as good as her.”
- “Why would anyone choose to work with me when they can have that?”
Before you know it you’ve been on her feed for 40 minutes and double-tapped your heart out on all her posts.
So you hold yourself back instead of taking action and pushing your business forward.
If any of this sings true, I’m here to help you put a stop to it.
You ARE good enough and you ALREADY know enough.
We’ve just got to tackle the BS stories you’re telling yourself and put into practice what you know. Because I’m willing to bet that the knowledge you have will knock peoples’ socks off.
You are the secret sauce in your business. People will come to you because of you.
You are not alone. How you’re feeling is totally normal. I get it because I’ve been there too.
Many high-achieving women like you experience doubt. But if you let it, doubt will stop you in your tracks and keep you in your comfort zone.
It’ll keep you playing smaller than you are capable of.
Sitting at the lights, instead of putting the pedal to the metal. Watching everyone pass you by.
The AWESOME news is: You have the power to intentionally choose your thoughts.
So what do you say babe?
Are you ready to demolish those doubts and power-up your confidence?[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”30″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” bg_color=”#655aa7″ scene_position=”center” text_color=”light” text_align=”center” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/6″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”2/3″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][split_line_heading]
“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.”
– Suzy Kassem.
[/split_line_heading][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”10px”][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/6″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_custom_heading text=”My 3 Step Guide
To Begin Demolishing Doubt” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:center|color:%23ee497e” google_fonts=”font_family:Oswald%3A300%2Cregular%2C700|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_column_text]I refuse to let you be held back by doubt. Here are 3 quick tips to begin demolishing doubt.
1. Keep a body of evidence
Doubt conditions us to look for and create evidence to support our doubts.
—> So if you doubt your new offer and think it’ll be a complete flop that no one will buy – that’ll probably happen.
BUT what if we flipped it around babe? What if you go out and look for every piece of evidence you can that you are doing an amazing, rock-solid job? (Because you are!)
I want you to find every client testimonial, and positive message you have received. Print them out and stick them on your wall. Or save them in a digital folder.
Look at them every damn day.
Create an album on Facebook with all this amazing social proof.
Each week record all your wins. No matter how big or small. It all counts.
Because what we want to do is reprogramme your mind to fight back when doubt hits you with a sneaky uppercut.
These are the seeds of your new belief system.
2. Affirm your worthiness
Find an affirmation that resonates with you and write it down every morning.
For example: “I am worthy of success and what I have to share matters.”
Or: “I am enough. I am smart. I am brave. I am confident. I am successful. I am worthy.”
By focusing on positive daily affirmations we start to break down negative self-talk that, over time, has created subconscious patterns in the way we think. Affirmations help us to replace these patterns with a more positive narrative, that in time will create new subconscious patterns.
3. Draw on your strengths
We all have different strengths. Pinpoint what those are for you and double down on them. Use them to drive your business forward with confidence.
From a practical perspective look for the structures, sales methods, and marketing practices that best suit you. Listen to your intuition, notice what comes naturally and do more of it.
When it’s in your strength zone and you find it fun and easy, you’ll want to do more of it. You’ll be more consistent and you’ll start seeing real results that feed into the evidence that you are AWESOME![/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” bg_color=”#655aa7″ scene_position=”center” text_color=”light” text_align=”center” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/6″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”2/3″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”30″][split_line_heading]
“Doubt sends you down a path of ‘shoulds’, so trust the idea that gets you fizzing”
– Natalie Tolhopf
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Let’s dismantle your doubts!” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:center|color:%23ee497e” google_fonts=”font_family:Oswald%3A300%2Cregular%2C700|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_column_text]
I want you to achieve your version of success. I don’t want you to look back in 10 years and wish you had pushed yourself that little bit harder to bust through your doubts.
In addition to the tips above, here are some resources for you to check out.
- Join my FREE Facebook Group: Allergic To Perfect- Taking Imperfect Action To Grow Your Biz! Full of ambitious, go-getter women in biz, just like you.
- Grab a copy of my book Allergic To Perfect – How to ditch your doubt and take Imperfect Action to grow your biz.
- Read these blog posts:
[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_row_inner column_margin=”default” text_align=”left”][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/3″ column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][image_with_animation image_url=”6290″ alignment=”center” animation=”Fade In” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” max_width=”100%” img_link=”https://natalietolhopf.com/3-easy-ways-boost-biz-confidence/”][vc_column_text]3 Easy Ways To Boost Your Biz Confidence[/vc_column_text][/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/3″ column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][image_with_animation image_url=”6385″ alignment=”center” animation=”Fade In” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” max_width=”100%” img_link=”https://natalietolhopf.com/stop-getting-in-your-own-way/”][vc_column_text]Are You A Course Whore?[/vc_column_text][/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/3″ column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][image_with_animation image_url=”6382″ alignment=”center” animation=”Fade In” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” max_width=”100%” img_link=”https://natalietolhopf.com/will-ever-good-enough/”][vc_column_text]Will You Ever Be Good Enough?[/vc_column_text][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”2/3″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”default” custom_height=”20″][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][vc_custom_heading text=”Before you go” font_container=”tag:h1|text_align:center|color:%23655aa7″ google_fonts=”font_family:Oswald%3A300%2Cregular%2C700|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal”][vc_column_text]Hi, I’m Nat…
After more than a decade business coaching (and surviving a failed business venture), I know firsthand that success is all about mindset, focus, and consistency.
With a coaching philosophy that’s equal parts butt kick and handhold, I guide go-getter business women just like you, to take imperfect action so you can build a business that’s right for YOU.
No more procrastination. No more perfectionism. No more bloody comparisonitis.
You are good enough NOW.
Not tomorrow, next week, or next year. But NOW.
Let’s GO!
Nat x
P.S. These results will be dropping into your inbox so you have no excuse not to take action![/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/3″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”default” custom_height=”20″][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”20″][image_with_animation image_url=”5706″ alignment=”center” animation=”None” border_radius=”none” box_shadow=”none” max_width=”100%” img_link=”https://natalietolhopf.com/book-time-nat/”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][/vc_column]